How I Told My Girlfriend About My Tease Denial Fetish

As we live in Barcelona we spend a lot of the time going to the beach, the nudist beach to be more accurate. So last Sunday we went like we normally do. As I was lying there I noticed one guy that was in speedos, and lying next to him his girlfriend who was naked. At first I thought maybe nudism wasn't his thing but then I noticed why. I have to say the 'bulge' in the speedos was definitely not normal so I said to my girlfriend, 'I think that guy's wearing a male chastitiy belt'. She replied, 'I didn't know they existed', the conversation went from there and she seemed interested so I said I'll show you one online later.

Ok, so when we got home I was showing her the CB curve device on the internet, I then made a 'joke' that maybe I should buy one as it could be a fun game and I've always kinda enjoyed the feeling when I want sex but she doesn't and I have to wait.

So, that night we were in bed and she was definitely in the mood, I was giving her a massage which pretty much always leads to me pleasing her orally. After she came she kissed me but there was nothing else...no sex...this was not the norm. She then explained that as I like the feeling of being excited I wouldn't be getting any pleasure that night and smiled. She then went on to tell me that once the CB arrives she'll be keeping hold of the key, masturbating in front of me while I'm locked away and tied up and if I EARN the right I can please her orally as a reward. At this point I think she knew exactly what I liked, and very much knew what she was doing to me. Well after about 2 hours of lying in bed, extremely aroused and unable to stop thinking about how much I wanted to cum I managed to get to sleep.

During the rest of the week she only asked if the CB had arrived, no sexual activity whatsoever...as you can imagine by Friday night I was climbing the walls having spent the whole week looking forward to either cumming or the CB arriving. Then Friday night in bed went something like this

Gf: 'How many days since you last came?'

Me: 6, the last time for me was last Saturday

Gf: 'Is that all, only 6 days' (and she smiled)

Me 'I was thinking thats pretty good and maybe I'll be getting something tonight (trying to make a joke out of it but definitely wanting release) You know, the CB arrives Monday

Gf: Haha, you won't be cumming before then, I want you frustrated when your new toy arrives. From now on if you want an orgasm, you will work for it, housework, massages or maybe a nice present (another knowing smile). Of course it doesn't really matter if the CB arrives or not, you won't be cumming til I say so either way.

Me: But imagine how much harder it will be for me, I won't be able to touch myself at all or even get hard

Gf: Hmmm

She smiled again.

At this point I began to stroke her back, gave her another massage, we started kissing etc and I went down on her. This time after we came she took hold of me and started to stroke very slowly, I was absolutely desperate to cum but she just teased me with her hand and did a few other things I very much liked. Then she stopped...no edging.. nothing....so once again after feeling more excited than I ever have in my life I finally got to sleep, after how long I couldn't tell you.

The next morning I woke her stroking her back and gave her another massage and she was really horny again, so again I pleased her orally, but this time after she came she told me she wanted more.

Gf: I want you inside me'

Finally, the result I was hoping for, maybe she was so excited she'd forgotten I wasn't getting any release! I was having the best sex ever and she came again, but she didn't stop which made me think, this is amazing I'm actually gonna get to cum! Then she slowed down and stopped..

Gf: Just because you're inside me it doesn't mean you're going to cum today. I just fancied penetration.

I reckon a photo of the expression on my face would have been priceless. I was devastated but at the same time more excited than I've ever been in my life (this was my first experience of being controlled like this). She then proceeded to continue teasing me while I was inside her, each time I told her I was about to cum she would stop. I remember lying there with her on top thinking 'oh my god she's actually making me edge'!! I lost count of how many times she brought me to the edge, but on the last one she stopped and smiled again

Gf: Did you enjoy that cochino? (she's spanish, it means little piggy), I'm hungry, let's shower together quickly so we can go out for breakfast.

Well, I'm rambling on a bit so I'll finish up. This was yesterday, she spent the rest of the day smiling or laughing at me as she knew exactly how excited I was. In total she made me get naked 4 times during the day just so she could get me hard and tease me. Sometimes bringing me to the edge and sometimes just gently stroking, but always laughing or knowingly smiling.

I woke up this morning and I am more excited than ever, I feel like I am simultaneously in heaven and hell lol. Just the thought of what today brings excites me. She's still in bed at the moment so I think I'm gonna wash up, do some cleaning and make her breakfast...

So to summarize, today is Sunday, 8 days with no cumming and the CB arrives tomorrow...

Later we're going to the nudist beach, if I see the speedo guy I may have to go over and shake his hand.

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This morning was more of the same, when she woke up she called me to the bedroom and proceeded to take great delight in making me hard and showing me how easily she could make me twitch with the slightest touch. But that was all, no edging, no stroking.

After lunch and a few more chores (which I was more than happy to do haha) we were sat on the couch. Once again she decided to tease me, this time slowly stroking me. I have to say at this point real life T&D was even better than I'd ever imagined. After she climbed on top of me and basically rode me to made herself cum, how I held back I don't know, of course after she finished she asked if I wanted to cum as well and again just as I was about to she stopped.

Gf: Let's go to the beach

I've honestly lost count of how many orgasms she's had since I last came.

So after sitting on a nudist beach with my mind racing for 3 hours we came back home. Again we were on the couch.

Gf: Get it out, I want to pour some of this icecream on it and give you a blowjob (those were literally her exact words)

She undressed me and first started to show me how easy she could make me twitch, which again really made her laugh. Next came the blowjob which was out of this world, of course she paused before I got near cumming.

Gf: Ok I think I'm gonna let you cum

She continued and of course just as I was about to explode she stopped.

Gf: You know what, I really think after so many days of waiting I'm sure you'd rather cum inside me properly while having sex.

She actually said it like she was doing me a favour, almost with a look of apology lol.

Gf: But that will be another day mi amor. Maybe we should make a date for you to cum as it's your first time being teased. Next Sunday I think.

Another 7 days!! With that she stopped, and went into to the kitchen laughing at the stupid look on my face..

When she came out, she told me she had changed her mind. Of course stupidly I thought she meant I would be cumming today, but no...how stupid to think that.

Gf: I think it will be more fun if you don't know the day. I've got everything planned, it will be a surprise.

I am now starting to realize she has complete control over my release and the CB device hasn't even arrived yet...

 
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At Monday, when my girlfriend came home she wanted to see the CB I was wearing, and of course the first thing she did was start laughing. But, nothing else..

Sometime during the afternoon, we were hugging and she started rubbing me through my jeans

Gf: Do you want me to take it off (more laughing)

Me: I can't believe its been 10 days and this is my first in the CB

Gf: 10 days?! Is it really, I didn't realize hahaha, probably because I have come 7 times in the last 10 days. At least you'll get to cum one day, I know the exact day, time, place and technique that will make you cum..

I really didn't know what to say

So, nothing else happened for the rest of the day, until we went to bed. I was waiting for her to join me..

Gf: I think I'm going to sleep naked (more laughing)

I decided not to ask for anything or to touch as I have learnt over the last 2 days when I do I get pushed away followed of course by more laughing.

So I waited and luckily she moved closer to press herself up against me.

Gf: Lets take that CB off

Needless to say I didn't need convincing..

We began to play a little and I was surprised we actually started having sex. It would be an understatement to say that I felt every singe movement even though we were going very slowly.

Gf: Stop moving, I want you to lay perfectly still

She then climbed on top of me and proceeded to tease me very slowly going up and down, while I was forced to stay motionless. After a minute or so she stopped

Gf: I want you to do something for me

She laid on her back

Gf: Get my vibrator

A knowing smile (again) let me know exactly what to do.

Gf: You know what I want. But....only use the vibrator while you are down there, I know how much you love to touch and lick me but you won't get that pleasure tonight.

It honestly drove me crazy not being able to use anything but the vibrator. So, after a minute or so she came. Foolishly I thought maybe today was the 'day' and I moved up to see if we'd be carrying on with sex, as she sometimes likes.

Gf: No no, I'm satisfied now. You won't be getting anything else tonight. But you can think of a number between 5 and 20.

Me: Ermmm (worrying)

Gf: Quickly!

Me: 17

Gf: Today is the 5th, maybe you'll be cumming on the 17th

More laughing. I was speechless

Me: ok (yet another look of delighted horror)

Gf: Noooo, I am only kidding, I already told you today that I know the exact date and time

Me: Can you at least give me a clue as to when

Gf: No amor. Go to sleep. You've got an early start tomorrow..

Of course as she rolled over on her side, pulled me towards her so the belt pushed into her from behind it took some considerable time to calm down enough to go sleep

So today I woke up and can honestly say I didn't know it was possible to feel this excited. It's starting to seem like just about every girl I see turns me on yet I have a complete sense of loyalty to my GF (not that I didn't before lol).

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In the end I had to do 2 weeks. I was pretty desperate after that, I take my hat off to guys that manage months at a time! Since then we had a little break from T&D, I don't want to overwhelm my gf with our new game ;)

Of course, she now knows what drives me crazy tho, so when she makes me wait 8 days like last week I absolutely love it.

I've ordered another chastity belt, this time a metal one, the shut rondo.

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So, as I'm sure you know, some days when you're being denied are not as good as others, I mean you can't expect your gf to always be in the mood to tease etc. so some days over the last week or so have been a little tougher as I have had to suffer with very little attention.

Of course, this has served very quickly to make me much more attentive to my gf. Needless to say, a couple of nights ago I was in bed giving her a massage. After she was very happy with me.

Gf: That was amazing. You're always doing these things for me, there must be something you'd like me to do?

I know it sounds like something out of a tease, but that's exactly what she said.

Me: Well you know how much I like to be denied

I'm not ashamed to admit this came out as a blatant hint. At this my girlfriend started laughing..

Gf: Ok, you're going to beg me....but not now, I'm relaxed from the massage.

With that she grabbed my cock and squeezed it once.

Gf: Go to sleep.

So, just from one squeeze I was hard and excited about what the days would bring and of course unable to sleep.

The next day was reasonably uneventful at least for me. My girlfriend wanted me to 'shave' her, which inevitably led to me pleasing her with my tongue. After she came she stopped and we got ready to go out, that was it...no teasing or anything for me, but I've learnt my place...sometimes the best thing to do is not apply any pressure.

Today however was great. We woke up and she began caressing my cock and balls, I use the word caress because there really wasn't anything I'd call stroking. After about 5 minutes of her toying with me (she loves to tease and make my cock twitch about, she laughs a lot and it makes me even more excited) I was unbelievably hard.

Gf: Will you put it inside me, it's so hard it's making me excited too

She laughed, climbed on top of me and let me slide inside her. Next she began to move herself back and forwards, getting more and more excited. Well obviously I started 'moving' myself.

Gf: What are you doing? Stay still.

This turned me on even more, she was basically using me to cum and not letting me do anything, although obviously I was enjoying it too. After probably 30 seconds more I involuntarily began moving my hips.

Gf: Stop, I told you not to move.

I was in heaven. After about another 20 seconds she came, then she pulled me on top of her and let me have some fun. I was going fairly slow and I have to say I was loving it. Of course after very little time I was so excited I was about to cum...then I heard the words I love to hear but at the same time destroy me, how she knows I'm going to cum is a mystery to me!

Gf. Stop, that's enough.

She pushed me away and laughed. We sat talking for a few minutes and I told her how happy she was making me keeping me denied, it's been 7 days since my last release, from one of her handjobs. (I'm never allowed to stroke and cum alone). She also told me how easy it is to keep me in denial. Anyway, she wasn't finished with me, she went back to caressing my cock and balls, laughing at how it twitched and amazed I was so hard for so long....she kept this up for about 10 minutes. At the end I was unbelievably excited, and do you know what she did..just to top things off...she sat there and masturbated to make herself cum again while I was allowed to kiss her.

Gf: Three orgasms in 2 days for me

She smiled and got out of bed

Gf: Go and make me breakfast.

What can I say....

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As you know I'd already had a lot of 'fun' waking up in the morning and to be honest last night I wasn't really expecting anything at all, especially as my gf had already came twice that day....but due to a little luck from my neighbours I had an amazing time.

So, we went to bed together just like normal and we were lying there talking. All of a sudden we both stopped due to the noise coming from the flat below. Well, to put it bluntly the couple in the flat below us were from the sounds of it having very very satisfying sex. The girl was almost screaming with pleasure and the guy pretty much the same. My gf found this quite funny as we've been in this flat 4 months and never heard them ever....I made a joke and said maybe he gets denied even more than me :) Anyway it went quiet for a couple of minutes and then the noises started again.....this pattern continued for about 20 minutes...stop start stop start. Finally my girlfriend was on all fours with her ear pressed to the floor listening. Now, the site of her in that position naked really wasn't helping me as I'd suffered all day wanting to cum..

Gf: It sounds like it's two girls down there now!

Me: Are you serious? Please don't tell me that or I'm never gonna get to sleep.

With that we both laughed. Well, the 'people' downstairs had obviously had enough and no more noise was heard. We were back in bed and my gf noticed that not only was I hard but pretty much dripping precum. Then she gave me the look I love to see, the smile that tells me she loves to tease me. She made me lay back on the bed, pulled my boxers down and proceeded to start giving me the slowest blowjob ever. Well you can imagine that it took practically no time before I was about to cum. She stopped for a few seconds, then started again changing between the blowjob and squeezing my balls. Again as soon as I was getting near to the edge she stopped. This went on until I had edged four times. Then she stopped. It was time to go back to just caressing, no possibility of edging, just pure torture that all I was getting was very softly caressed.

Gf: Pobrecito (Spanish for 'poor little thing')

She then stopped touching my cock completely. We started kissing and I was unbelievably desperate to cum, something I shared with my gf as I began to beg. Each time I tried to touch her she pushed me away laughing. I really was desperate, I can't put into words just how much. I'm not sure how but eventually I ended up as so many times I do with my head between her legs....now I honestly thought after cuming twice that day that she'd maybe let me play with her for a little why and then stop, so you can imagine my surprise when she pulled my head closer and made me make her cum again with my tongue.

At this point I thought maybe she'd take pity on me as she has done a couple of times in the past, saying no a lot and then surprising me and letting me cum. Tonight was not going to be the case. She kissed me and said thank you for an amazing orgasm, she then put her head down by my cock, kissed it once and spoke to it in the most sympathetic yet almost evil voice...

Gf: When's it going to be your turn you poor little thing.

She returned to lying down normally again and laughed, just a little laugh.

Gf: You know, there's no better feeling than how relaxed you are just after cumming.

She let out a sigh of complete and utter contentment.

Gf: Will you turn the light out honey?

Again, like so many times before, I couldn't tell you how long I was laid there in the dark before I was able to get to sleep..

Last night we were in bed and everything started with a story.

Gf: You know, you're a little similar to those priests that make a vow of celibacy. So that they're not allowed to masturbate, have sex etc.

This made me smile, I'd never thought about it like that.

Gf: You know what I'd like to do to a priest?

I really didn't see where this was going but maybe I should have known.

Gf: I would kidnap him, tie him to the bed and test him. I would try to make him cum, stroking him, fucking him, whatever it took to get him hard. Now I know, he probably wouldn't get hard if he really feared god etc, but just maybe he'd have a weakness. So, I'd spend days tormenting him to find that weakness.

At this point I was debating whether to ask her to marry me lol

Gf: Once I'd found that weakness do you know what I'd do next? I'd tease him to the point of orgasm everyday, until he couldn't take anymore, until he was begging ME to let him cum. So that I knew I had broken him.

I was in a little shock. This bordered on pure evil yet I loved it

Gf: Well honey, you're my priest.

I was blissfully speechless.

So after this, we got talking again about different things to do with sex.

Gf: You're as hard as an adolescent teenager

This made her laugh and she grabbed my cock again.

Gf: How did you used to stroke this thing when you were younger.....fast?

With that she started stroking it really fast, and I reckon I managed about 10 strokes before I felt like I was gonna cum....of course she then slowed it right down...

Gf: Or did you prefer it slower....

Me: Fast..

She went fast again, very fast and I practically got straight to the edge. Of course from the noise I was making she knew to slow it right down again. Then she stopped and started laughing, quite a lot of laughing.

Gf: Poor thing, who knows when you'll be cumming again

More laughing

Gf: You know, all this talk of sex has got me kind of excited.

She didn't need to say more. I knew what to do. I began to caress her and moved my way down to give her oral sex. After less than 30 seconds..

Gf: Stop, stop

Me: What is it?

I was thinking, she's just doing this to get me excited and now she's going to tell me to go to sleep.

Gf: You're going to make me cum and I don't want to cum too soon. Come here I'm going to give you a blowjob

This made me smile, a blowjob without cumming is the perfect gift....although I did feel it was getting very difficult now, not being able to cum. And knowing she's not going to let me doubles the excitement, it's like a vicious circle..she stopped and I began caressing her body, all the while thinking that I'm actually teasing her now, at her request. After a little while I went back to pleasuring her orally and she came.

Gf: Come here

She grabbed hold of me and slid my cock inside her. This was getting seriously difficult. I could feel every single tiny movement, multiplied by 10. I started moving in and out and immediately told her I was going to cum

Gf: Do you want to cum for me?

Me: Please

I genuinely meant it, I was practically begging and although a part of me always wants to be kept in denial I inevitably reach this point after so much teasing where I will cum without question, given the opportunity.

Gf: No

She laughed

Me: Pleeeeeease

Gf: Would you like to fuck me from behind, I know that's your favourite position

Me: I would

So we started again, very slowly

Gf: You can cum

I didn't need any more...I came within 2 seconds, before she might change her mind, and like always after so much teasing and waiting it was great! This morning I woke up and still felt that blissful relief, like I'd only just finished.

I am waiting again for my CB, I sent the shut rondo back as it wasn't the size I ordered. My gf has told me how things will work. She keeps the key, I wear the device during the day (my god, no stroking to webteases, not even to edge, that's gonna be tough). At night I sleep without the device, like she said..

Gf: You don't need to be wearing it next to me in bed. You won't touch yourself while I'm there, and that way I can tease you easily.

I couldn't agree more :)

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There was one experience I didn't put on here that happened a month or so ago. It was probably one of the best I have had to be honest.

I'd often been subtle and not so subtle pointing out to my gf that I'd like to be handcuffed and teased a little. Well after being patient she surprised me one day.

We were watching tv, when she gave a look that let me know exactly what it was she wanted. She grabbed me by the hand and we went into the bedroom. Now I have to say, amazingly I wasn't actually really in the mood for once, but that all changed very quickly.

We got kissing and undressed and then she told me to lay down on the bed. I was more than a little surprised when she reached into the bedside drawer and pulled out the handcuffs. She handcuffed one hand to the left bedpost, and then the other to the right bedpost. Immediately I felt completely powerless and excited.

Me: They're a little tight, hurting my wrists..

Gf: You can take it, stop being a baby.

She then put the blindfold on me. Now this made a huge change as I was powerless to move and had no idea what she would do to me. What happened next was the icing on the cake, completely unexpected as I'd never told her I like a little pain.

She slapped me hard around the face and laughed. I felt a mixture of emotions, the first definitely being shock, the second a little fear and the third extremely excited....so much so that I actually let out a little laugh of delight. That was a mistake and greeted by another slap around the face, much harder than the first one. I didn't laugh the second time.

Gf: I see that you like that.

Me: I do.

The third slap I was kind of expecting and although it seems strange to type this, I really enjoyed it.

So, the teasing began next. Lots of caressing with one finger, very light stroking with no possibility of edging. After I don't know how long, maybe 30 minutes, she climbed on top of me and pulled the blindfold off.

Gf: I'm going to cum. You will just lay there, don't cum.

She started to pretty much ride me until she made herself cum. Then she stopped.

Gf: I'm going for a shower.

And that was that. She left me handcuffed there while she took a shower.

After about 20 minutes she came back laughing. I was absolutely desperate to cum and more or less squirming on the bed.

She began stroking me again, very lightly just enough to keep me hard but not get anywhere near the edge.

Gf: Poor thing, I've been tormenting you for 90 minutes. Would you like to cum yet?

Me: Please...

I was now begging. She began to stroke me properly, and each time I was about to cum she stopped and started grabbing my balls, waiting a while and then starting stroking again.

After she'd had enough she let me out of the handcuffs. I was half expecting her to tell me we were finished for now, but she actually pulled me towards her and let me enter her. Needless to say I was almost cumming immediately.

Gf: It looks like you've got yourself quite excited. You can cum for me now.

As per usual I took immediate advantage of this before she changed her mind, the orgasm was great, and again my gf had done something very special for me.

So tomorrow is our one year anniversary, she told me this morning after grabbing my cock in bed that I'd be waiting for the weekend, it's only been 4 days since she last let me cum and she wants me desperate. I think tomorrow I'll be getting lucky again, whether there'll be T&D I don't know. To be honest I'm just looking forward to enjoying the weekend with her, I'm thinking I'm a very lucky guy to have such a great gf.

 
My CB still hasn't been sent back, which means I'm free to stroke as long as I don't cum. I was thinking yesterday, at the moment I can stroke myself as long as there's no orgasm, I'm not allowed...ever.....I really like this thought :) Now when this CB comes back things are going to change, I'll be wearing it every day, basically then I am never going to get to stroke at all...not even to tease myself....the only relief I'll ever get is at the mercy of my gf......it's a scary thought, but it sure does excite me! Either way, my days of self orgasm are completely at an end :)

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The CB is back, they've made the alterations and now I'm wearing it....my days of stroking are well and truly finished....

My gf has already been teasing me today while wearing it. I have to say, she's surprising me more every time. Today I was playing the xbox and doing pretty well, of course my gf knew how to distract me. She was drinking a cup of tea and she started licking the cup. Now to be honest at first I started laughing and wasn't too worried.

Gf: Imagine I was licking something else like this..

That got my attention and I turned towards her. She smiled.

Gf: Is there something you'd like?

I didn't even get a chance to answer. She started playing with my nipple, teasing and laughing. I could feel myself trying to get hard in the CB, quite unsuccessfully.

Gf: I know what you want. It's so easy to play this game with you when I enjoy it so much.

She moved her hand down and grabbed the tube of my CB. Then she started laughing.

Gf: Oh, you poor thing, you can't have anything cos you're locked up.

She laughed and went back to reading her book...

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It's really starting to dawn on me that I'm never going to be stroking again....a very strange feeling that causes a mixture of emotions but without a doubt the dominating one is excitement.

My gf just left the flat, but before she went she dangled the key to my CB in front of me.

Gf: Would you like to be unlocked before I go?

Me: Please!

She started laughing.....the laugh that I love to hear because it completely sums up how much she's enjoying tormenting me.

Gf: Not a chance. Why don't you spend the afternoon watching a porno film just to remind you that you're wearing that CB.

She then left the flat singing 'I've got the power' and laughing to herself as she closed the door, leaving me sitting there with a look of astoundment on my face..

It really is amazing me how good she is at teasing, just a couple of sentences from her and I'm left in complete torment all afternoon. I don't think I've ever been so blissfully under someone's control. I'm starting to think that people who don't have this 'fetish' are seriously missing out lol.

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So, it's now 6 days since I was put into my chastity device and I have to say it's a very different experience to the denial where I was allowed to at least stroke and edge even if I couldn't cum. Now things are much more intense as I am in complete denial and unable to touch at all. 6 days feel a lot longer..

Each morning I have been caressed and teased, with no stroking or edging, then showered and locked into the CB. Every evening I have been unlocked after getting into bed, my cock and balls caressed until I beg for release..and then told to sleep. All of this has been done so my gf can be sure I don't get any chance to stroke. There has also been no stroking or edging on her part either, just the caressing. During the day I've received a lot of verbal teasing. Now that I think about it, she's really been teasing me a hell of a lot this week....I'm sure you can understand this has kept me extremely excited and needless to say I have done all the housework, cooking and food shopping without question and also given my gf a lot of attention and massages....something I am sure she is enjoying immensely.

So last night we were in bed, she'd taken off the CB. She grabbed me by the balls as she so often does now and waited for me to get hard....it didn't take long.

Gf: Maybe you'll get lucky and have a wet dream tonight. That's the only way you're gonna get to cum.

She laughed.

Me: I don't think I will. Last time you kept me in denial for 2 weeks I didn't have one and it's only been 6 days.

She laughed again, although this one was a little more evil.

Gf: Maybe you'll have one after a month.

I wasn't sure what to make of this, she loves to keep me guessing as to when I'll cum next, so basically she's saying I've got a month like this. It drives me crazy not knowing and I know she enjoys teasing me like that.

Gf: Is it safe for you to wear your CB all the time, day and night?

Me: It is, but I think it can be painful sleeping at night.

Gf: That's good to know. Just so you know, if I go away for a few days, you'll be locked up during the whole time.

She didn't even acknowledge the idea of the pain at night, I know why, because it's irrelevant to her.

She started caressing my balls and cock until I was begging, then she actually started stroking it slowly.

Gf: Enjoy your few seconds of pleasure.

I was almost cumming after about 10 strokes. She stopped and to my amazement, slapped my balls. This was a first. She slapped them, not too hard but hard enough to make them hurt. Then she laughed.

Gf: One day you're going to masturbate in front of me, I want to watch.

Me: I'd love to

Gf: But not today, it's getting late and I'm a bit tired. Tomorrow I want you to shave me and then please me using just your tongue.

I was so happy to hear all this. This whole experience was like a dream come true.

Gf: Take off your boxer shorts, I want you to sleep naked.

I did what she asked, amazed that this was happening to me and she turned on her side.

Gf: Now come here and hug me.

I hugged her from behind with my groin firmly pressed against her buttocks.

Gf: Can you remember what it's like to cum honey? Soon you'll struggle to. Turn the light out.

I'm sure I don't need to explain how long it was before I got to sleep.

This morning I woke up as my gf had grabbed me by the balls. What a fantastic way to start the day!

Gf: Did you enjoy sleeping naked?

Me: I did, I was aware of it every time I woke up during the night.

I instinctively started caressing her back and shoulders. She let out a little sigh to tell me she liked it....then I stopped. At this she grabbed my balls and squeezed them. I knew what this meant, it meant why have you stopped. I continued caressing her.

After she'd had enough she starting teasing my cock with her hands until I was begging again to cum.

Gf: No, you're not going to cum, you like to be kept in denial remember. Have you started your 16 army exercise program yet. I want you to do it, I'm sure you're motivated enough by now.

She laughed.

Me: I'll start it today.

Gf: Good.

Then she started stroking me very slowly. I tried not to get to the edge to quickly so I could enjoy these precious moments but inevitably I was on the edge within 30 seconds....she stopped and slapped my balls once.

Gf: NO!

I was amazed, where was she learning to do all this? But before I had chance to think much she slapped them 3 times, much harder and with each slap said:

Gf: Malo Malo Malo

That means bad, bad, bad in Spanish. So, my balls were aching a fair bit, but I couldn't have been happier.

Gf: I bet you'd love to be inside me now?

Me: I would

She laughed and said with an air of non importance.

Gf: Not now

She went back to caressing me, and I went back to begging.

Me: Please let me cum, can you at least tell me when it's going to be?

Gf: No, you know I don't like to plan the exact date. Wait here a moment.

She left the bedroom and came back with her laptop, I quickly saw that youporn was open. She then made me sit with her and watch porn while she just rested her hand on my cock, no stroking, no caressing, nothing. After about 10 minutes she was excited herself.

Gf: I'm going to put a condom on you and fuck you. The condom is so you won't feel so much, I think you might struggle otherwise not to cum

She made me fuck her until she came.

Gf: Keep going.

I carried on until I was about to cum.

Gf: Stop, don't move.

She let me rest about 10 seconds and then started riding me very slowly until once again I was about to cum. Of course then she stopped. I immediately began some serious begging.

Gf: That's enough for you. You're not going to cum.

Me: Pleeeeeeeeeeese!

Gf: Do you really want to? Think about it..

Me: No......Yes....No

She laughed.....and then slapped my balls again!!

Gf: NO NO NO!

She really started laughing as I curled my legs up in agony..

Gf: Come here.

She hugged me.

Gf: Relax, it's time to have a little sleep.

Of course I couldn't sleep at all, I just laid there looking at how relaxed and content she looked after cumming....in complete shock at how my dreams were coming true. After about 10 minutes I got up, took a shower and went back into the bedroom. She locked the CB on me and I went to make her breakfast, blissfully tormented yet strangely contented.

After breakfast, as if I wasn't already tortured enough she said to me..

Gf: I'm going to have a sort through all my clothes.

She's just spent the last hour wearing nothing but a thong and high heels, putting on miniskirts, making me look and telling her whether she should keep them or not. Now, not wanting to be big headed or anything but I have to say everyone says my gf is a spitting image of penelope cruz, and given the fact that she models you can imagine how tormented I am looking at her amazing body. I don't say this to boast, more to give you an idea of how much I am being teased. She really is absoluteley stunning to look at and each day I wear this CB I can honestly say I feel like a really really lucky guy....although I honestly never knew a guy could be teased this intensely.

Gf: I'm going to wear this little dress out with you and my friends tonight.

She laughed.

Gf: And you're going to wear that CB.

I just smiled.

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Today is day 8 wearing the CB. I can't believe I haven't stroked at all for 8 days!

So, yesterday was kinda fun too. Being a Liverpool supporter I was getting ready to go to the pub to meet some friends and watch the game.

Gf: How long until you leave? Do you have time to shave me?

That definitely wasn't what I was expecting to hear.

Me: Er, I do.

My girlfriend laid on the bed and I began to shave her pussy. Afterwards of course I ended up making her cum with my tongue, don't ask me why but I was really keen to do it, well even more keen than usual.

Gf: Thanks, you can go and watch your football now. Make sure you don't come home too drunk.

As if to prove a point she took her keys out, gave them a jingle and laughed. That was it, no teasing, caressing or anything...let alone any chance of cumming.

So, I went to the pub, still wearing my CB. This was the first time out without my gf and with the guys so I was a little nervous, but also kinda excited. Anyway, if you're a football fan you'll know Liverpool won, hence I stayed out a little longer than planned for a couple more celebration drinks. Now, we left the first bar and headed to the next which was about a 20 minute walk. After about 10 minutes walking I was absolutely desperate for the bathroom, so were a couple of friends. Of course they had no trouble finding a discreet place to relieve themselves....I on the other hand realized I need to sit down to pee.....a thought that made me laugh a little....needless to say when we eventually arrived at the next bar sitting down and peeing was like heaven lol.

Of course I eventually arrived home a little drunk, but I'd stopped before things got too out of hand. My gf had cleaned the flat while I was out, Liverpool had won.....maybe, just maybe I'd get lucky and the day would be perfect...

After dinner and talking we went to the bedroom and my gf undressed. That was enough to make me start begging. She went to the drawer and took out a black leather glove. She pushed me onto the bed so I was laying on my back with my legs spread, and then she slapped the CB with the glove. Now, as it's a steel CB I obviously couldn't feel anything..and stupidly, I laughed...the fifth slap wasn't aimed at the CB, she lifted the CB and the fifth slap hit me straight on the balls. It was hard enough make them ache. She laughed and then unlocked me.

Gf: Go and take a shower, it's time for bed.

So I was in the shower, balls aching a little but still happy from the football and seriously hoping I'd be getting another happy ending soon. Why else would she be telling me to shower..

After the shower I got into bed. My gf immediately grabbed hold of my cock

Gf: Was it fun in the pub wearing that CB?

I explained the not able to pee story and we had a laugh about it.

Gf: You smell better now, not of beer and smoke (in Barcelona people still smoke in the bars)

'Ahhhh' I thought to myself, that's why I had to shower, not because I was necessarily going to get lucky.

She reached down and started stroking me....and got me to the edge quickly.

Gf: No...

She stopped.

Then she made me edge again, and stopped.

She laughed.

Gf: I hope you're not going to make so much noise when I stroke you in a couple of weeks time. Two of my friends are coming to visit. Do you think you'll be able to handle having 3 females in the flat?

Now, I'd already met one of these friends at the beach and I know they're certainly not shy about being topless in front of guys etc. so who knows what they'll be wearing coming out of the shower. I really don't need these kind of thoughts right now lol.

Gf: I think things are going to get very difficult for you when you're wearing your CB. That's right, it's not coming off just because we have visitors.

I was speechless, ok, so firstly three females in the flat. Secondly, they're not arriving until around the 10th of November, thats a lot more time in the CB with no release...

She started stroking me again, quite fast. I got to the edge really quickly and of course she stopped. Then just like the last time she slapped my balls, just the once but hard enough to make them ache.

Gf: No! No cumming, that's your punishment for coming home drunk when I told you not to.. Time to sleep.

She laughed and that was that. Luckily for me the alcohol played it's part and I got to sleep fairly quickly.

It looks like I'm gonna be in for an interesting time..

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My gf made it quite clear that I don't become a pain and start pressuring her, making any kind of demands etc. It's good to have everything clear on each side before beginning this type of thing I think. Anyway, I have respected her wishes and things are going great, a little too great maybe lol.

She's relentless in teasing me, always giving me a little look and laughing or making comments. When we started I honestly thought 'ok, I'll be getting teased about once a week' but its several times a day.....and she's already told me it won't stop because it's so easy for her to do and she enjoys it.

This morning in bed she got on her knees, pulled her panties down and spread her pussy open.

Gf: Is this what you want?

I tried to touch her but she pushed me away, as usual laughing. Then she grabbed my cock, it was already hard. She didn't stroke it or anything tho, just gave it a little squeeze and then she went and showered. Less than 20 seconds and she'd teased me to the point where I was completely desperate. Next I showered and she locked me away, simple as that, and the thought went through my head....'another 12 hours before this will be coming off again'. Day 9 today and I am now in a pretty much permanent state of arousal.

She came home for lunch today, which of course was already prepared, on the table and the dishes cleaned. I've also already offered her a massage for tonight, it's amazing the effect a CB can have. Every time she leaves the flat she picks up her keys, looks at me and gives them a little jingle. Its a real surprise for me that little things like that can make the experience so much more intense. For example, I never get to lock or unlock myself, having her take of the device when we go to bed is completely humiliating and I have to say its my favourite part of the day, not because it means I might be getting some kind of stroking soon, but because it really enforces the control she has over me.

It's a strange feeling to have a real desire to cum, yet also want to be kept in denial forever lol

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Let me tell you about last night.

As usual my gf unlocked me so I could shower and get into bed. But before she did, she started rubbing her leg up against the CB and my balls. She was wearing these black kinda lace tights and of course I was trying to get hard in the CB. Now I'm sure you guys already know that the ring type device pulls as you try to get hard and it puts pressure on your balls. She didn't stop as she saw it was starting to hurt me. Instead she pressed up against me and started kissing me. Then of course she laughed. She mananged to get the tube of, the A-ring would have to wait until I was soft again..

Gf: Go and shower.

I came back from the shower and we got into bed. She started stroking me very slowly and I got to the edge in less than 20 seconds, it's crazy how easily you can get to the edge after being in a CB for a while.

Me: I'm on the edge.

She didn't stop.

Gf: You're going to cum.

I didn't argue, cumming was all I wanted to do and she continued stroking me, but very slowly.

I came and it was really good. I've never felt so under someone's complete control before.

She laughed.

Gf: I hope you enjoyed your surprise. Look at how much came out, I think you better go and shower again.

So, feeling VERY relaxed and content I fell asleep.

This morning I woke up around 9am, after sleeping really well. I laid there in bed thinking about how for the last 9 days I had woken up very early each morning, unable to sleep due to feeling really excited, not today though. Today I was completely relaxed and more than content. I started thinking to myself, now that we've finished our little CB game for a while I can finally stroke a little, and seeing as I've spent all week downloading porn it will be nice to be able to watch some and stroke, even if I'm not allowed to cum. This thought made me very happy.

Gf: I'm gonna go shower

She was in the bathroom and had just finished showering when I went in.

I looked at the CB.

Me: It'll be nice to not have to wear that today.

I was being serious, I was so relaxed and not too interested in cumming or being teased. You know how a guy can lose all interest after they've had their release.

Gf: What do you mean? You mean while you are doing your exercise program?

Me: Er, no I was actually just thinking in general.

She didn't laugh.

Gf: Of course you'll be wearing it today. Take your shower before I have to leave for work.

I showered, thinking to myself 'is she being serious?'

I went back into the bedroom with the CB in my hand

She started to put it on and I let out a kind of 'whimper' as if to say half joking half serious, 'I don't want to wear it'

Gf: Don't complain. You had a nice surprise last night and you slept like a baby.

Click. It was back on.

Gf: Understand something, the only time this comes off apart from to sleep is when you do your 16 week army exercise program, which you WILL start today. (There's a webpage that has a 16 week army training program, you have to train every other day doing running, press ups, sit ups etc. Tease and denial is good to motivate me into getting fitter ;) So much pent up energy and frustration lol.)

She jangled the keys, laughed and left to go to work

Now, this has really really dawned on me. I'm back in chastity, and from the looks of things this is a permanent arrangement. I'm NEVER going to get to stroke my cock again, I'll only get pleasure when my gf wants me to feel it, and I'm always gonna have this CB on when she's not around.

Needless to say, the orgasm from last night is a distant memory and I'm now as excited as ever...I'm not sure how a little tease and denial play has suddenly changed into this permanent situation...not that I'm complaining, after all this has been my fantasy for a long long time. I sure am one happy guy and really appreciate how lucky I am to have such a great girlfriend......but then again maybe I should be thinking what have I gotten myself into lol.

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Just to really make things worse (or actually better ;)) I've ordered another CB. It's the braveheart from Steelworxx. Looks really good, and this one is more open than the Rondo I've got at the moment which means I can clean myself still wearing it....so should my gf see fit she can lock me away and not need to let me out at night, if she's feeling particulary cruel or going away etc.

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With it being the weekend, as usual I got teased even more than usual this morning....and after a LOT of begging I was even allowed release, although again no sex, only a very slow very drawn out handjob. It's now been some weeks since I was allowed to cum during sex....but of course that doesn't mean my gf hasn't lol

So this morning was much the same as usual. A lot of teasing, caressing and laughing as I became more and more desperate....and very little stroking, at least for the first 30 minutes.

Me: Are you going to let me cum today?

Gf: No, you're going to suffer some more

Me: When you say more do you mean for the next 30 minutes or so and then I get to cum?

I tried to say it in a half joke, although I was 100% serious with my intention of wanting to cum. She had teased me for 30 minutes with very little stroking and no edge whatsover. I was desperate.

Gf: No, I mean I'm gonna tease you for days until just touching your cock is gonna make you cum.

She laughed.

Again I was shocked, I really don't know how she comes out with such great lines that make me even more desperate.

She started stroking me slowly but firmly and got me to the edge very quickly. There's something about knowing I'm being controlled that gets me so excited I edge within 20 seconds.

She stopped and started squeezing my balls and I began to make noises of desperation. At this she stopped and started slapping them, very lightly but enough to make me flinch.

Gf: I know you like this..

She started stroking me again and got me to the edge. This was repeated again and again, I lost count of how many times but I was genuinely desperate to cum and can honestly say I didn't want to be kept in denial another minute. I began begging but my requests for sex were met with the following response:

Gf: No sex today, you are going to lie there. Don't move and don't make a sound

Amazingly she took pity on me and stroked slowly, this time she didn't stop and I came. I was amazed as it's only been 5 days since I last came from a handjob.....but I'm not complaining, completely the opposite in fact :)

As for the 16 weeks, it's been mentioned I will continue my exercise training for the entire course...but I don't think it means denial for the entire time. Personally I think there will be breaks in the game where I don't have to wear the CB etc although when that might start is anyones guess....well actually when my gf tells me. This way it keeps everything exciting and new and it's always nice to have some 'normal' time now and again.

The dynamic of denial definitely changes for me. The first 7 days are tough as i wanna cum but love being kept in denial. The next 7 are harder as I wanna cum even more and although I love being controlled the part of me that wants to cum definitely starts to surface more. It's an interesting experience, as I feel I'm in a win-win situation, if I'm kept in denial it just gets better, but if I'm allowed to cum well that in itself is amazing after being teased for so long. I don't know how guys cope with months of denial, maybe one day I'll be posting it as one of my experiences, for now I'm enjoying every minute of my relationship with my gf. Again, she mentioned it the other day.

Gf: Just think, all this has happened because we saw some guy on the beach who may or may not have been wearing a CB.

I wonder if I'll be told to wear my CB to the beach next summer? The thing is we always go to the nudist beach....and i know my gf would find it absolutely hilarious to see me humiliated in front of everyone there. The other day we were sat opposite each other on the tube. She leant forward, made a fist and tapped my metal CB so that it made a noise. She started laughing at the look of shock on my face as the two people sat on the other side of the train looked at me with a curious expression on their faces. I just sat there and was so content about my whole situation that I was almost pleased to feel so embarrassed :)

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My new CB has been posted now, it should be here in about a week. I'm looking forward to it arriving :) One thing I didn't mention was that after cumming today, showering and making breakfast I 'forgot' to bring out the CB to put on. Shortly after my gf grabbed my crotch and squeezed (expecting the CB to be on I think). It wasn't though.

Gf: Who gave you permission not to wear the CB? Go and put it on.

She gave me a little 'you know who's in control' smile.

I know I should expect this reaction by now, but it's still surprising me how good she is at all this. I really really thought today would be back to normal and the end of the game for a while. The last time she let me cum the CB went straight back on and today it's the same again. 2 weeks of wearing it now, I haven't been able to stroke my cock at all and it's 6 months since I made myself cum.

Two things that are without a doubt clear, my days of masturbation to make myself cum are well and truly over and the question of 'if and when' I get out of this CB is completely at my gf's discretion.

Happy days.....I think lol.

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My new CB has arrived! :) It's the Braveheart from Steelworxx (it's my profile pic)

I'm looking forward to some longer term wear ....although I'm not sure why lol...perhaps I'll live to regret buying it. My gf wanted the option to be able to keep me locked up for days at a time without having to be released for hygiene reasons so what could I do, I had to buy it.

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It looks like I may be in for another treat soon. My gf and me have been talking about my T&D fetish and other things I like and that she likes. As she's regularly slapping my balls, either gently just to make herself laugh or actually hard enough to make it hurt I'm sure she figured out long ago that I also enjoy S&M.

So, she's told me things she likes (regular things where I am in control) which we'll do when we're not playing the T&D game. This is good for me as it gives us a break and keeps everything 'new' so to speak and good for her as we also do other things she enjoys. However, last night things took a very interesting twist, and again I was more than a little shocked. So...we'd been talking about S&M and I commented on what a natural my gf was...she looked surprised at the compliment.

Gf: Do you really think so?

Me: It's a little scary how good you are. Do you know how much people sometimes pay for this kind of thing? I've seen adverts for 250 euros per hour.

She laughed at this, but was also very interested and began looking on the internet. I decided not to push the situation and continued playing my xbox while she looked. After a while..

Gf: Did you know there are courses on how to be a dominatrix? That could be interesting..

At this point my interest in my new xbox game practically vanished!

Me: Really? If there's a place local we could go have a look.

Gf: And a dom has written a book about her experiences here in Barcelona, it's called Confesiones de una domina.

At this point I was having a hard time believing what I was hearing. This was all just to good to be true.

Me: I'll get it if you like?

Gf: Ok.

I could tell she was very intrigued but I left her alone to continue looking. I'm learning that not applying any pressure is a good thing.

So, today...I've ordered the book and by chance while reading a review found a BDSM club that amazingly is about 3 minutes walk from our flat :) I told my gf and again she was really interested, she started looking at the webpage..

Gf: Theres a BDSM market being held there soon. We should go, maybe we can get some new toys. And look, they've got a room you can hire out with all the equipment to use, it's 60 euros for an hour.

She laughed. I'm sure I don't need to tell you what my response to all this was :)

Gf: And there's another place in Barcelona called the Fetish Cafe, we could try there one day as well.

At this point I was starting to wonder if someone had put ecstasy in the cup of tea I was drinking.

I started massaging her feet, which she liked.

Gf: Clean them for me first, go get the towel.

She smiled.

If I had had a ring I think I would have proposed there and then..

I got one, came back cleaned her feet and started to massage them. This turned into a proper massage and after about half an hour my gf was perfectly relaxed and asleep. I was strangely content just to have been able to give her a massage, no teasing, no CB, nothing at all like that.

She woke up after about an hour and got ready to go out, but before she left she turned to me and said.

Gf: You know we still haven't tried out your new toy.

We bought one of those anal vibrator toys designed for prostate milking a couple of weeks ago.

Gf: I hope you've had some practice getting used to it it because I want to use it on you soon.

Now at this point I was feeling slightly delirious and as she was speaking Spanish I think she said I would be handcuffed while she fucked me with it, but I can't be 100% sure....although I'm hoping I'll find out tonight! :)

So, to conclude, she could potentially do a dominatrix course, we're gonna visit a BDSM club in a couple of weeks and tomorrow....well I could be kinda walking funny

 
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I live in Barcelona but am from the UK. My gf and me have been back in England for the last 2 weeks, for xmas and the new year.....and the cb wasn't packed.

So, during that time I've been getting xmas presents...the main ones being 4 orgasms in the space of the last 17 days, now that's probably not very many for the average guy but for me it's a lot! However, it's not all been fun and games, take yesterday morning and evening for example..

So, we woke up and my gf was telling me about how she had an erotic dream after which she told me she wanted me to make her cum orally. Of course I did as I was told.

Gf: Now I want you inside me..

You can imagine I was very happy to hear this, thinking orgasm number 5 was on it's way, ho ho ho merry xmas and all!! However after about 30 seconds..

Gf: The bed is making noise, I think someone downstairs might hear us.

Me: No, don't worry I'm sure they can't.

Another 30 seconds...

Gf: No, I think they can. Stop.

I stopped and she pulled away from me. I didn't need to even speak, I knew where this was heading, she saw the expression on my face and responded.

Gf: It's ok, I've already cum.....and you don't get to.

She said it so matter of fact, of course it made me want her even more but that was that and we got dressed.

Later on in the evening we got into bed, we were hugging and all of a sudden she reached down and started slapping my cock, I was a little shocked and had to listen carefully as she whispered in Spanish..

Gf: Te voy a castigar....te voy a castigar....

She was repeating 'I'm going to punish you' over and over as she slapped it. Well, within seconds I was hard and more than intrigued.

Me: What do you mean by punish?

She leant down as if she was actually talking to my cock instead of me.

Gf: I'm going to punish you, at the moment you're on holiday but when we get back home tomorrow I'm going to lock you away again....so enjoy your freedom..

I was speechless and extremely turned on as she kept slapping it.

Gf: Would you like me to suck your.....

Just hearing these words made me think how perfect it would be for her to let me cum from a blowjob, that was all I was thinking at that moment, all that I wanted.

Gf:...nipple.

She didn't even laugh, it was as though I should be grateful for the little pleasure she would give me.

Of course I said yes and after she obliged I was absolutely desperate to cum, this never happened of course, instead we went to sleep.

Well, the snow in London has kept us trapped here today and there's no way we're going back to Barcelona anytime soon so I'm not gonna be locked away just yet. I'm thinking I'm going to beg for more orgasms tonight.

It's an interesting time now. Sometimes I'm locked away for days with no release, then I'm let out for days at a time....but not necessarily with any release...I'm completely under her control....I don't even think about the possibility of masturbation to make myself cum anymore, the 'No making myself cum' rule has been enforced for so long now that it doesn't even seem like an option.....masturbation has been replaced by a blissful torment...happy days.

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We finally made it back to Barcelona yesterday (oh I'm back in the CB still with no release now). Now the first thing you'll notice is that the weather in Barcelona is nowhere near as cold as the uk, and there's certainly no snow here. However, the second thing is that although it's a mild 12 degrees outside, due to the serious lack of heating in Spain its only 12 degrees inside too. Now, bearing that in mind after a nice central heated house in England it was somewhat difficult trying to get into a freezing cold bed. Hopefully that sets the scene for what followed..

I was in bed, boxers and a t-shirt. My gf was wearing just about everything she owns, even a jumper.

Me: This is crazy, I'm freezing.

Now what happened next was a surprise, my gf opened her underwear draw and passed me something.

Gf: Put these on, they'll really help with the cold.

She had passed me a black pair of her tights!

At first I laughed, how many teases had told me to put tights on, and now here was my gf telling me....although not in a sexual way, I really think she sincerely wanted to help me.

Of course I put them on :) it really was a case of kill two birds with one stone, instantly heated and horny lol

Immediately my gf started laughing, and not just a little, she was literally rolling around laughing...and of course I was loving the humiliation

Gf: Get out of bed and let me see you properly.

I obliged no longer even thinking of the cold.

She made me stand up, turn around and commented on how they were see-through as her eyes started watering from laughing so much. I was kinda laughing too.

Me: These are really comfortable!

That really set her off laughing even more.

Gf: Be careful not to ladder them, they're new.

More laughing

Me: Seriously I think I'm gonna wear these each night, they really help with the cold.

Ok a little lame, it was true but maybe there was a hidden motive too.

Gf: You'll have to buy yourself some, you're not wearing mine every night!

I'm going to get some tomorrow....my gf has told me the shop I need to go to in the morning...

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Well it's now a week with no release and am still locked away in the rondo cb.

Every night in bed before we go to sleep (and some mornings) my gf has been rubbing or slapping my cock until it's hard, then runs her hands up and down it, grabbing my balls and verbally teasing me. She always finishes by giving my balls one hard slap and then it's lights out...no stroking, certainly no edging and orgasms....haha, can someone let me know what they are again? The only ones I get now are from handjobs, and sometimes even they are ruined...when I reach the point of cumming she slows right down so that I bearly enjoy it..as for sex, the last time 'I' came from sex was back in November..

Oh, I bought the tights :) Each night I'm now wearing them to bed and each night my gf laughs like crazy....this is seriously not helping me get to sleep!

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Things are still continuing much the same. Sometimes locked away, sometimes let out but very rarely allowed to cum. This month I've been allowed to cum 4 times, I think that's pretty good considering....however, things are taking a more serious twist now.

My gf seems to really be starting to realise I'll do anything to cum, so she's making me work a lot harder than before, and her teasing is getting much harder to handle...of course I'm not complaining one bit :)

So, a new rule that's been introduced on top of never masturbating and cumming EVER........I'm now not allowed to ask for any kind of sex, release or pleasure. After being teased and really begging, here's what she said:

Gf: What are you doing asking for release? It's my decision when you feel pleasure. From now on you're never to ask me for anything like that, you will get pleasure only if and when I decide, and nothing more.

She then stroked my cock until I edged, stopped, laughed and told me to go to sleep.

A tiny sentence like that has completely changed the dynamic of my chastity....it's now perfect, no topping from the bottom at all. She's completely in control and doing a damn fine job of it.

On top of that, things will be getting tougher for me soon. I'll be moving to England at the end of next month, and my gf will stay in Spain for 3 months before coming to join me.

Gf: What's the longest you could safely wear your CB?

Me: Well the one with openings I think I could wear longer term, maybe taking it off once a week to clean. I think it would be ok to wear overnight (at the moment she makes me sleep with no cb).

Gf: That's good then, when you're in England you're going to keep it on all the time.

I liked where this was heading...

Me: I could use those plastic locks, that way you can check the number when we chat on webcam to see that it's not been removed.

Gf: Exactly....and I can tease you while I play with myself on the cam....and you're locked away.

I didn't know what to say, just the thought really excited me

Me: So, I'll be locked away in England for 2 weeks at a time until we visit each other with absolutely NO physical teasing??

Gf: That's right, it's going to be interesting to see how desperate you are when we meet at the airport.

So, during 3 months the most I'm going to be cumming is 6 times....and that's if she doesn't come over, tease me with no release, put the cb back on me and leave for another 2 weeks...what have I gotten myself into lol...

You know, right at the beginning my gf said to me 'you don't know what you're getting yourself into honey'....I think I'm starting to see now, we play this 'game' on her terms now, how and when she wants to and so far it's exceeded all expectations :)

 
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Last night was fun, I was in the bedroom on one pc, and my gf was in the front room on her laptop. We got talking on messenger and before I knew it we were on the subject of t&d.

Gf: You're going to have to win me over, like when we started going out.

Me: Like a nice romantic dinner?

Gf: You'll see.

Me: Flowers and massages maybe?

Gf: It's getting late, what shall we have for dinner?

Me: I dunno, what are you going to make?

Ok, so I said it kinda joking, but she came running into the room. She slapped me lightly on the balls laughing.

Gf: You're getting way too cheeky.

She opened the draw and took out the CB

Gf: Put it on.

I did.

Gf: Dinner.

I went to the kitchen :)

Later that night we were sat on the sofa watching house (great series). Now, maybe there was too much onion in the dinner but I really had to let one go, and being a stereotypical guy I farted....and I'll admit I was almost proud of the noise (sorry ladies, us guys can be disgusting I know).

Gf: You are unbelievable, in the morning, in the evening....you don't stop.

I was sat there smiling as if I'd actually achieved something..

Gf: I'll tell you what, every time you fart and make a noise like that is another day you're not going to cum.

This was a surprise! I sat there for a few seconds contemplating this new idea. I mean, the idea's great but this could mean I never cum again lol, of course it could also mean that I learn to control myself a little better and I'm thinking it's gonna be the second option eventually.

That was last night on the sofa. So far I'm not gonna be cumming until at least Sunday.....I don't think I'll put onion in the dinner again...

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So, it's been 8 days since my last orgasm. I'd been told I wouldn't be cumming until at least Sunday, so today I was thinking maybe I'll be in with a chance even though I'm still locked away.

20 minutes ago my girlfriend got home from work and from the way I immediately started massaging her back...

Gf: It looks like someone's feeling a little horny?

She smiled.

Me: I'd describe it more as completely desperate.

She laughed.

Gf: You poor thing.

Me: But maybe today you'll give me release..

It was a desperate plea. She looked at me completely bewildered.

Gf: Why would you think that?

Me: Because you said nothing at least til Sunday.

Gf: That was before you did another 4 farts..

Oh no...I really thought the novelty had worn off of the game and she wasn't taking note anymore.

Me: I didn't realise you were still counting.

Gf: That's why I said 'what a shame' when we we watching the tv on Saturday. You've got at least 4 more days before I'll even think about letting you cum

I was really desperate, and I told her.

She laughed even more.

Gf: You poor thing.

Me: My god, the more you laugh, the more excited I get....

She really was laughing a lot now.

She grabbed my balls and started kissing me. They were hurting as I was desperately trying to get hard in the cb.

Gf: Don't get too excited, it's not coming off. I've got classwork to do.

'Oh noooooo' are the exact words I thought, but I can't convey the sense of complete and utter helplessness I felt lol.

Me: You really should charge for this, you're so good at it.

Gf: The funny thing is that it's so easy to do, I guess being a little 'bad' makes it easy for me to enjoy it.

And that was that, she's doing her classwork now (which I've learnt is time for me to stop asking and suffer in silence). I'm sat here thinking the expression 'be careful what you ask for....' applies to me at this moment in time...

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Well, the situation is definitely getting very difficult now. Normally when I reach a certain level of desperation my gf takes pity on me, or gives me a little surprise but this time she's really making me suffer.

So before bed last night as usual I was looking forward to getting my cb removed because that meant that if she was in the mood I'd get teased....and as luck would have it she was.

I was already hard just by looking at her get undressed and as she grabbed my cock she laughed.

Gf: Someone's excited, what's the matter, are you still desperate to cum?

She laughed again, she sure seems to have fun watching me suffer.

She started stroking it out side of my boxers. After about 30 seconds the begging began :)

Me: Please let me cum tonight...

Gf: No.

More begging followed, with offerings to do just about anything for her.  (I'm not allowed to ask for teasing, stroking etc as in I can't annoy her by keep asking, but while she's doing things it makes her laugh, well sometimes....yesterday she just flat stopped because I asked to cum....you know maybe I should just never ask ever...

Gf: Don't you realise that no matter how much you beg me my answer won't change.

With that she stopped touching me. I lay there in silence racking my brains, maybe something I could do for her....after a minute I realised just how pointless it was, I wasn't going to cum no matter what.

We carried on talking for about 10 minutes, just general chat and then she reached down again. I'd learnt my lesson and didn't say a word except for whimpers of pleasure.....and all she was doing was running her fingers up and down my cock...it felt amazing.

Gf: To make you cum which would you prefer, my hand or my mouth?

Oh sweet lord, there is a god, I really had to think about this. The hands felt amazing, and I didn't want it to stop but just the thought of her using her mouth really excited me. I actually couldn't decide as she continued stroking and must have thought for about ages.....eventually...

Me: Mouth

She leant over and moved her head down......and then came back up and kissed me on the cheek.

Gf: Good night.

So, what words can I use, I honestly thought I was going to cum.....I'd been pushed past my limits, so desperate and again mercilessly denied. On top of that yesterday was only Monday, I've got until at least Thursday to go.

Gf: You know I think the day you actually get to cum you're really going to explode.

We hugged and I turned the light out. As I lay there wondering how long it would take to get to sleep the icing on the cake arrived....

The couple downstairs started having sex, and let me tell you they are certainly not quiet. All I could do was lay there listening.

Gf: Does it turn you on hearing them?

This time I laughed.

Me: No, you've already taken care of that.

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Still no release, and very little physical teasing. It's been 10 days but it feels a lot longer...

Last night getting into bed I was excited, even though I knew I wouldn't be getting much.

So, apparently the 'no fart' rule is still in effect..

Gf: Three more today, I'm starting to think you don't want to cum before you go to England.

I think the level of desperation in my voice convinced her that I wasn't doing this on purpose....she actually looked at me with a sympathetic face.

Me: Are you letting me off?

Ana: I'm playing my game and having fun with my plan..

Me: What's your plan?

Ana: You don't need to know.

She started running her fingers up and down my cock, outside of my boxers. I was already hard and this was just plain torture for me. I was thinking I'm denied until at least tomorrow, but she keeps me guessing so much that I'm not sure now.

We started kissing and after the conversation turned to 'normal' talk.

After about 10 minutes though things looked up considerably!

Gf: Do we have any condoms?

Me: Yes..

I couldn't believe it, we were actually gonna have sex and there was a good chance I'd be cumming!

Gf: Do we have the extra fine ones that let you feel more?

Me: Yes. Shall I get them?

Gf: No, I was just curious..

To say that her comment burst my bubble is an understatement.....once again in my desperation I'd assumed (wrongly) that I was getting some release...

Gf: Turn the light out.

I did.

Me: I was just thinking, that tomorrow your friend is here for 2 nights so I doubt I'll be getting anything tomorrow or Friday either.

My gf made a kinda mmmmmm noise in agreement.

Gf: Maybe I'll make you fuck me really slowly without making any noise.

At this point it hit me once again that I have no control over my situation and will be left like this as long as my gf sees fit, even if it gets too much for me to handle :)

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My gf's friend arrived Wednesday night which meant no teasing for me at all apart from my gf laughing at how desperate I was to receive something.

However yesterday things started looking up as her friend said she was flying back home that day...and I immediately started thinking that there's a good chance I'll be getting some release tonight. I don't know why, I just had a feeling and my gf seemed to be hinting a lot too.

So the evening came and we were sat on the sofa watching the new series of lost (in which I have no idea what's going on anymore) when my gf looked at me and smiled very seductively. I knew this meant I was in with a good chance of cumming tonight, but I've learnt a little these last few days..

Me: What were you just thinking?

Gf: Nothing.

And she smiled again.

So, the episode finished, my gf unlocked my cb and I got into bed. Now, as she was going to the bathroom she gave me a look that could only say 'we're gonna have sex'. When she came back she slowly got undressed looking at me in exactly the same way. She was naked and got into bed. I was unbelievably excited.

Gf: You know what I was thinking while we watched lost?

Me: No..

Gf: That when we get into bed I'm gonna get you hard, put a condom on your cock and make you fuck me until you cum....

I was hard and extremely turned on...

Gf: but...

'NOOOOOOO' was exactly what I was thinking, a mixture of desperation and more excitement at the same time.

Gf: I think after so many days of denial it would be better to spend some time doing more things to you, like teasing you, making you edge, maybe tying you up, stuff like that.

On my rollercoaster of emotions I was now on another high, this sounded even better. I couldn't believe what an amazing gf I have.

Gf: The only thing is I'm a little tired now.....

I knew what was coming....

Gf: So you'll have to wait for another day.

She smiled, a knowing smile that told me she found all this enjoyable yet effortless.

Gf: I honestly was gonna let you cum, but I think you'd prefer that to quick sex.

It took a few seconds to sink in....no cumming, not today.

Me: I don't suppose you'd like to share when that day will be??

It came out without thinking and I laughed nervously.

Gf: No...no questions.

She smiled.

I was sooooo desperate.

Me: No questions about anything? Even just a little teasing tonight?.

Gf: No. No more questions...ever. I'll never say yes so it's pointless asking. Remember you only get pleasure when I decide.

Me: Ok, sorry.

Gf: I'm going to think about more questions I can ask you though, like 'will you stroke my back and turn the light out?'

She grabbed my cock, squeezed it once and rolled over.

I started stroking her back for her.

I laid there thinking how much I appreciate her, how desperate I was to cum, how I wouldn't ask anymore questions, how I never wanted this teasing to end and how much I wanted it to end right now by cumming lol....all these thoughts at the same time....with such a desperation to cum that was not going to go away as I ran my fingers over her body.

Then...completely by surprise she grabbed my cock and started running her fingers up and down it. It felt amazing. It was teasing me like crazy and I started moving my hips slightly back and forward.

Gf: Hey, who said you could move?

She laughed..squeezed my balls once..and stopped. Then rolled over again to sleep.

Me: Oh my god.

Gf: What's the matter?

She said it in such an innocent yet evily sympathetic voice.

Gf: Buenas noches.

So, that was that. Today is 12 days, I don't know when I'll get release. An educated guess before would have been this weekend as it's when we'll have plenty of time for her to tease me etc.....but now I'm thinking maybe not, I'm thinking that if she's enjoying seeing me suffer, getting massages everyday, having all the housework done by me and cumming whenever she wants why would she stop it all by letting me cum...oh dear god :)

by Chewit

to be continued?