What Makes Male Chastity Work?

In one word – Orgasm!

In two words – Orgasm Denial!

Both “orgasm” and “orgasm denial” are the key ingredients of male chastity. Without denial  and without the promise of orgasm, chastity has little relevancy in a loving relationship. It will not work.

Cum-Days:

Without a longed for “Cum-Day” there is no build up of anticipation, nothing to look forward to other than total abstinence.

The best aphrodisiac, teases the mind, and gives the promise of release, to pleasure the body.

“Cum-Days” become special days. Maybe they don’t happen often, but they hopefully involve a rare and overwhelming orgasm, that makes the lock up an absolute pleasure to endure for the one you love.

When considering male chastity for the first time, you may become very focused on the fantasy and your own personal experience of that, and probably rightly so, but do you also appreciate that the anticipation and pleasure of “Cum-Days” is enjoyed equally and as enthusiastically by your wife or girlfriend? This brings us to the third thing that makes male chastity work – a loving, caring relationship.

The Male Psyche:

Up to a point the more you’re denied sexual release, the more focused you becomes on that. You will regularly be thinking about your “Cum-Day” or how many days of chastity lock up are still to go before release. You will probably set yourself a target for so many days lock up, and may even try to achieve more. Once your penis is denied the sensation of touch more of your body becomes alive to sexual stimulation, sometimes even the softest, most gentle of touches can make you instantly hard. Living in a state of sexual frustration will heighten your sexual awareness, a gentle kiss just touching your lips can send electrical sparks to your penis.

Female Enjoyment of Male Chastity

From the female point of view male chastity works because once your penis is locked away your sexual repertoire usually changes and you develop sensual skills that are much more focused on your keyholder. Your aim is to arouse, excite and pleasure your lover without using your penis. The sex you share has much less focus on traditional intercourse, male orgasm and ejaculation, and is equally, if not more so, arousing, exciting, enjoyable and fun!